Contents of this website
Feelings
Introduction to Dr Schneider’s model of feelings
How feelings can be defined
Through socialisation to secondary feelings
The Self
Western concepts of self
Is there a more “original” self?
My primary self / secondary self model
Love
Love as a basic need
Life phases of love
Definition of being love
Qualities of being love
The healing effect of being love
The universal Zen reality: to live being love in the state of meditation
Pain and its consequences
Strategies to avoid psychache during child development
Disregarding the need for love
Psychic pain, psychic insult and grief
How we repress and avoid psychic pain
Anxiety as reaction to psychic pain
Anger, violence and hatred as a reaction to psychic pain
Consequences in dealing with the pain of love deprivation
Excursions
Realities we live in
Sexual Cheating – Explorations into biologically promoted infidelity
Meditation and valley orgasm
Topics
Keywords
Anger Basic emotions Body energy Body memory Cascade of repression Child development Fear Joie de vivre Meditation Pain avoidance Psychic deprivation Purposeful love Relationship Zen reality
